Dating advice sucks. The whole "you can't change a person" shit bugs me. If there is no such thing as perfect (which, to me, is relative to your own personal preferences), and we shouldn't want to change someone, how in the hell are people supposed to date? When we get together with a person who we would like to change, but can't or shouldn't because it's not nice, isn't that what's also known as "settling"? And isn't "settling" for someone kind of a negative thing too? Christ, man. I'm screwed.